Tuesday, 11 September 2012

FACTS OF LIFE SEASON 1

1. Coca-Cola was originally
green

2. The name of all the
continents end with the
same letter that they start
with i.e A nd A

3. The strongest muscle in
the body is the tongue

4. There are 2 credit cards
for every personin the
United States

5. you can't kill yourself
by holding your breathe

6. It's impossible to lick
your elbow (Stop Smiling,
Its very funny).

7.when you sneeze,your
heart stops for a
millisecond.

8.It's physically
impossible for pigs to look
up into the sky.

9. If you sneeze too
hard,you can fracture a
rib,If you try to suppress a
sneeze,you can rupture a
blood vessel in your head
or neck and Die.

10. what do bullet proof
vests,fire escapes,winshie

l1. wipers and laser
printers all have one thing in
common--All invented
by women!!

12. The only food that
doesn't spoil is Honey.

13. A crocodile can't stick
its tongue out.

14. A snail can sleep for 3
years.

15. All polar bears are left
handed.

16. Butterflies taste with
their feet.

17. Elephants are the only
animals that can't Jump.

18. On average,people
fear spiders than they do
fear Death.

19. Electric Chair was
invented by a Dentist.

20. Stewardesses is the
longest word typed with
only the left hand.

21. The ants always falls
over on its right side
when intoxicated.

22. Rats multiply so
quickly that in 18 months,
2 rats could have over
million descendants.

23.Wearing headphones
for just an hour will
increase the bacteria in
your ear by 700 times.

24. The cigarette lighter
was invented before the
match (Matches used in
making Fire).

25. Most lipsticks contains
fish scales.

26. The first computers to
be invented used
vaccume tube instead of
capacitors.

27. Studies show that if a
man meets a woman in a
dangerous situation [and
vice versa], they are more
likely to fall in love.

28. The right ear is more
efficient for listening to
speech, while the left ear
is better at listening to
music.

29. When a male honey
bee climaxes during sex,
his testicles explode and
he dies.

30. Humans and dolphins
are the only animals that
have sex for their
pleasure..

31. A hippo can open its
mouth wide enough to fit
a 4 foot tall child inside.

32. Before the
stethoscope was
invented, doctors used to
put their head next to a
woman's breasts to
measure their heart rate!

33. Newborns technically
can't cry. Tears can’t be
created or released until
they are about three
weeks old.

34. The number of births
in India each year is
greater than the entire
population of Australia.

35. In England, suicide
used to be illegal.The
punishment for trying to
kill yourself was 'death'..lolz

36. You can live for weeks
without eating,but will
most likely die after 11
days without sleep.

37. The only part of the
body that has no blood
supply is the cornea in the
eye. It takes in oxygen
directly from the air.

38. After 5 minutes of
waking , 50% of your
dream is forgotten, within
10 minutes ,90% is gone.

39. The hummingbird is
the only bird that can fly
backwards.

40. 95% of humans really
dont know what they are
capable of until they are
pushed.

Friday, 24 August 2012

A HEART TOUCHING STORY...EYE OPENING ONE.


This is a powerful
message in our modern society.

We seemed to have lost our
bearing & our sense of
direction.

**Story of Appreciation**

One young
academically excellent person
went to
apply for a managerial position
in a big company. He passed the
first interview; the director did the last
interview, made the last
decision. The director
discovered from the CV that the
youth's
academic achievements were excellent all the way,
from the secondary school until
the postgraduate
research, Never had a year
when he did not score. The
director asked, "Did you obtain any
scholarships in school?"
the youth answered "none".
The director asked,
" Was it your father who paid
for your school fees?" The youth answered,
"My father passed away when I
was one year old, it
was my mother who paid for
my school fees. The director
asked, " Where did your mother
work?"
The youth answered,
"My mother worked as clothes
cleaner.
The director requested the youth to show his hands.
The youth showed a pair of
hands that were smooth and
perfect. The director asked,
”Have you ever helped your
mother wash the clothes before?"
The youth answered,
"Never, my mother always
wanted me to study and
read more books. Furthermore,
my mother can wash clothes faster
than me. The director said,
"I have a request. When you go
back today, go and
clean your mother's hands, and
then see me tomorrow morning.* The youth
felt that his chance of landing
the job was
high. When he went back, he
happily requested his
mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt
strange, happy but with mixed
feelings, she showed
her hands to the kid. The youth
cleaned his mother's hands
slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was
the first time he noticed
that his mother's hands were so
wrinkled, and there
were so many bruises in her
hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother
shivered when they
were cleaned with water. This
was the first time the youth
realized that it was
this pair of hands that washed the clothes every day
to enable him to pay the school
fee. The bruises in
the mother's hands were the
price that the mother
had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence
and his future. After finishing
the cleaning of his mother's
hands,
the youth quietly washed all
the remaining clothes for his mother. That night,
mother and son talked for a
very long
time. Next morning, the youth
went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes,
asked:
" Can you tell me what have
you done and learned
yesterday in your house?" The
youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand,
and also finished
cleaning all the remaining
clothes' The Director asked,
" please tell me your feelings."
The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is
appreciation. Without my
mother, there would not the
successful me today. Number 2,
by working together and
helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and
tough it is to get
something done. Number 3,
I have come to appreciate the
importance and value
of family relationship. The director said,
" This is what I am looking for
to be my manager. I
want to recruit a person who
can appreciate the help
of others, a person who knows the sufferings of
others to get things done, and a
person who would
not put money as his only goal
in life. You are hired. Later on,
this young person worked very hard, and
received the respect of his
subordinates. Every
employee worked diligently
and as a team. The
company's performance improved tremendously. A
child, who has been protected
and habitually
given whatever he wanted,
would develop
"entitlement mentality" and would always put
himself first. He would be
ignorant of his parent's
efforts. When he starts work,
he assumes that every person
must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager,
he would never know the
sufferings of his
employees and would always
blame others. For this kind of
people, who may be good academically, may be successful
for a while, but
eventually would not feel sense
of achievement. He will
grumble and be full of hatred
and fight for more. If we are this kind of
protective parents, are
we really showing love or are
we destroying the kid
instead?* You can let your kid
live in a big house, give him a Driver & Car for going around,
Eat a Good Meal, learn
Piano, Watch a Big Screen TV.
But when you are
Cutting Grass, please let them
experience it. After a Meal, let them Wash their Plates
and Bowls together
with their Brothers and Sisters.
Tell them to Travel in Public Bus,
It is not because you do not
have Money for Car or to hire a Maid, but it is
because you want to
Love them in a right way. You
want them to
understand, no matter how rich
their parents are, one day their hair will Grow
Grey, same as the Mother
of that young person. The most
important thing is your kid
learns how to appreciate the
effort and experience the difficulty and
learns the ability to
work with others to get things
done.


Thursday, 23 August 2012

Woman kills and eats her two sons – ‘I thought they were pigs’


A mum butchered and ate her two young sons because she hallucinated and thought they were Pigs.
 
The Thai woman allegedly cooked and ate her children, aged one and five, and was found by police sleeping in her home surrounded by their body parts.

The woman, a member of a hill tribe from the mountainous region of Chiang Main near the Burmese border, had been suffering from mental illness since 2007 but had recently stopped taking her medication.
She had been left alone with her sons as her husband left for a few days to get her medication.
He said: “I had to go out of town for a couple of days. I told her that I would bring back the medication she needs.

“I never imagined that something like this would happen.”

Dr Kiattiphum Wongrachit from the Mental Health Department said: “The woman killed her children because she didn’t continue her treatment and didn’t take her medication.”

He added that it is believed that in her hallucinogenic state she thought her children were pigs and that she has yet to realise that she killed her children.

A hospital report from her treatment in 2007 stated that the woman suffered from hallucinations and believed someone was coming to hurt her.

The woman, whose name has not been released for her family’s protection, has been charged with murder, although details of the charge have yet to be released.

She has been deemed mentally unfit to fight her case and has been sent to Suan Prung Psychiatric Hospital in Chiang Mai for treatment.

Wednesday, 22 August 2012

10 Things You should never say to your Kids Teacher!!



As a parent, you know that advocating for your child is in your job description. So when an issue arises with the person who's molding his or her young mind, you're going to speak up. But it's important to choose your words carefully. "As with anyone whose service you depend on, it's in your best interest to avoid coming off as too critical or demanding to your child's teacher," says Suzanne Tingley, a former teacher, principal and superintendent, and author of How to Handle Difficult Parents. "Expressing your concerns in a neutral way usually leads to a more constructive conversation and a better outcome for your kid." Read on to learn which statements, however well-meaning, can land you in the "troublemaker" category. Photo by Thinkstock.
 

"My son says you don't give him enough time to finish his tests. I'd like to hear your side of the story." Laying out the situation and asking for the teacher's "side" may seem like a diplomatic approach, but to the teacher it reads as an attack, followed by a twist of the knife. "The kicker is the second part because it suggests you are mediating between two equals, like siblings who can't get along," says Tingley. A better tactic: "Jake seems to be struggling with his tests. What are you seeing?" When you start from a place of information-gathering, as opposed to putting the teacher on the defensive, you'll likely get a fuller picture of what's going on, says Tingley. (And you'll save yourself the embarrassment if it turns out your son has been doodling during every test.) From there, you and the teacher can decide on the best way to address the problem.

Related: Get the top 5 questions to ask during a parent-teacher conference.

"Henry is acting out because he's bored in class." "As a teacher, you spend your life trying to make school interesting and challenging," says Carolyn Bower, a former kindergarten teacher in Bangor, ME. "When someone says class is boring, it means you haven't done your job." The statement also may not be entirely accurate. "Parents often say this in response to a teacher bringing up a behavior problem, when the actual issue is a lack of self-control on the student's part," says Tingley. So instead of starting off with an excuse, find out what's really going on and promise to speak to your child. If you truly believe he's not being challenged, steer clear of hurtful generalizations and mention a specific problem and solution: "Henry seems to have the multiplication tables down. Could we give him something more challenging?"


"My child would never lie. If she says she handed in the paper, she handed it in." Here, you're implying that the teacher misplaced the paper or is bluffing-which are both places you don't want to go. As hard as it is to hear, "kids sometimes lie when they're feeling cornered," says Tingley. Even if that's not the case with your conscientious student, acknowledging the mix-up and suggesting a solution is the best way to help your cause. Try: "Amanda says she turned in the paper. I don't know what happened to it, but I'd hate to have her take a zero. Can she hand in something late?"

"We're going on vacation for a week. Can you put together a packet of my daughter's work so she doesn't fall behind?"

You may think you're doing the responsible thing, but unfortunately, this typical request is a bit insulting. "You're implying you can replace teaching with a packet of worksheets," says Jan Copithorne, a middle school special education teacher in Highland Park, IL. On top of that, "it's a lot of extra work to anticipate everything that will happen in class over a week and put it together for one child." Because kids miss so much when they're kept out of school, Copithorne advises against pulling them out for an extended period, unless there's a truly important event or a family emergency. If you're set on your plans, ask the teacher for a general overview, like what chapters will be covered in each subject, and accept that your child will need to play catch-up when you get home.

"I know my son doesn't want to take your honors class next year, but he needs it for college so I'm insisting he sign up for it." Some kids need a little nudge; others know their limits. You probably have a pretty good idea where your child falls, so be honest with yourself, then ask for the teacher's opinion-not her endorsement-about signing up for advanced classes. "No teacher wants to see a student forced into a place he doesn't want to be," says Tingley. (And no parent should, either.) "What often happens is the kid who isn't yet ready for the challenge ends up getting demoted to a regular class, which then feels like a failure," says Tingley. Karen Patterson, a high school language arts teacher in Upper Arlington, OH, has also seen students who sign up for too many high-level courses "absolutely self-implode." Sometimes, "a kid may love and want to take advanced history and language arts, but Mom is making him take advanced math too," says Patterson, who advocates a less-is-more approach, pointing to the benefits of a lighter workload: more time for extracurricular activities, which also look great on college applications.

Related: Find out what 6 things children need most.


"Why do you give so much homework?" Your daughter has been up late every night working on a book report and presentation, both due in the same week for the same teacher. So naturally this is the first thing you want to blurt out at the next parent-teacher conference. The reason you shouldn't is because you are in effect saying, "You don't know how to do your job" and "Why don't you care about my child's well-being?" says Tingley. Instead, phrase your question this way: "Julie's been having trouble getting everything done. Are other kids having trouble, too?" Referencing the rest of the class depersonalizes things and can provide you, and the teacher, with some helpful perspective. For instance, if everyone is struggling, the teacher may realize that her expectations are too high. (If she doesn't, feel free to take your concerns to the principal.) If instead it sounds like your child is the exception, discuss getting her some after-school help or moving her to a different class.

"Matt has had so many after-school activities lately, he couldn't finish the reading." In the hierarchy of your child's life, you and his teachers are the bosses-and you'd never tell your boss you couldn't do your job because you were busy with trombone lessons, right? "Young children tend to have a lot of activities, but when they get to middle school they can't be booked from 3:00 to 9:00 every night and keep up with their work," says Copithorne. As a general rule, plan on your first grader devoting about ten minutes per night to homework; for each subsequent grade, add ten more minutes, says Tingley. So a fourth-grader might have 40 minutes worth of work, while a high school senior has two hours, which should still leave enough time for a few of your child's favorite activities. "Students who do sports and clubs are typically more engaged in school," says Tingley. "So it would be a mistake to take them out of everything."

Related: Try these tricks for managing your time well.

"Dear Mrs. Jones: Why did you give Emma this grade?" Email is a wonderful tool for communicating with your child's teacher. But it shouldn't be used for firing off every question that pops into your head, particularly when there's a better way to go about getting the answer. "A full-time teacher might have 110 kids, and their parents are all emailing, too," says Patterson, who sometimes receives messages like the one above after posting grades. With many concerns, including those about low grades, talk to your child first. If she can't provide an explanation and is old enough, have her bring it up with the teacher in person-the best way to communicate when a question requires a lengthy response. "Especially at the high school level, kids should be taking on some of this responsibility themselves," says Patterson. If your child or you doesn't receive a satisfactory answer, by all means, send a (non-accusatory) note: "Can we talk about what Emma can do to bring up her science grade? I'm also available by phone if you prefer." In other words, think before you (cyber) speak.

"My daughter and her friends don't speak to Beth because she's not in their group anymore. That's not bullying; they have a right to choose their friends." No parents want to believe their child is being cruel to other kids, so when a teacher brings up an issue like bullying, it's tempting to play it down. And yet, "teachers don't make those calls lightly, so when we do, we need parents' help in reinforcing lessons," says Bower. This can be trickier with girls than boys, since female altercations tend to be more insidious, says Tingley. But you can help "stop the stuff you see." Ask the teacher what behavior she has witnessed in the classroom and talk to your child about why whispering behind another student's back, or passing notes about her, is wrong.

"I spoke to the principal about how you failed half the class on that last test and she said I had to take the matter up with you first."

"If you really want to tick off a teacher, this is the way to do it," says Tingley. "There's nothing more annoying than when someone brings an issue to your boss before you've had an opportunity to correct it." As a parent, you might be inclined to do this if you don't feel like dealing with a teacher you dislike or if you're upset about something, such as an unjust grade. Still, unless something truly egregious has happened, like a teacher threatened your child or grabbed him roughly, it's the wrong move. "There are certainly problems that warrant the principal's attention," says Tingley. "But in most cases you should follow the chain of command."

Wednesday, 15 August 2012

How Gwen Stefani lost 10lb in just 10 days

Gwen Stefani
Gwen Stefani looked stunning as she strolled the decks of Russian billionaire Roman Abramovich’s yacht Luna on holiday in Cannes – and we can reveal how the 41-year-old got her smoking hot bod.
It’s all thanks to a secret raw food diet.

According to a close pal, Gwen began the raw regime and ramped up her exercise programme to seven days a week in the run-up to her family holiday with husband Gavin Rossdale, 43, and sons Kingston, five, and Zuma, two.

‘Gwen wanted to look incredible on her break, so she went on a strict 10-day cleanse,’ says the friend.
‘She only ate raw foods, which she found really hard as she loves cookies and pizzas, but she was determined to be able to indulge in the fabulous French food on offer.

‘Her diet consisted of fruit for breakfast; raw meat or fish for lunch and dinner; and lots of raw veg.
‘Gwen was also doing a daily super-high intensity cardio workout in the gym.’

The singer’s diet allowed her to tuck into the meals on Roman’s yacht, where world-class chefs cater to guests’ whims.

‘Gwen says she’s been eating pain au chocolat for breakfast without guilt,’ adds our source.
‘She feels her cleanse was worth it to be able to do that.

Meet the 43yrs Old Woman Who Looks 16yrs – She reveals her Beauty Secret

Meet Mizutani Masako, a 43-year-old woman who looks like she’s in her 20s. According to online sources, she spends alot of money on maintaining her skin. She was born in 1968 and is 43-years-old. She has two children. She spends five hours a day taking care of her skin. She also has not had plastic surgery and is all natural. She is a housewife and has become the idol of middle-aged Japanese women. Ms Masako is a model for a women’s magazine in Japan. She also regularly posts tips on skin care products, clothing and other accessories.

Ms Masako has some tips to help women look younger. Let me show you:
  • Tip 1 – Keep the body fit and thin by exercising regularly
  • Tip 2 – Get enough sleep
  • Tip 3 – Don’t smoke
  • Tip 4 – Have a balanced diet and have 4 meals a day in small portions.
  • Tip 5 – Drink lots of water and fluids as water wash away toxins.
  • Tip 6 – Apply lighter make-up as one grows older.
  • Tip 7 – Apply Vitamin E-based cream or lotions on the body to keep the skin soft.
  • Tip 8 – Apply sunscreen if staying out in the sun.
  • Tip 9 – Follow a cleaning, toning and moisturizing regime before going to bed.

A 38-Year Old Indian Man Padlocks Wife’s Private For 4 Years Over Fear of Infidelity

man padlock wife private
A 38-year old Indian man identified as Sohanial Chouhan recently made a do it yourself chastity belt to prevent his wife from engaging in extramarital affairs.

We learnt Sohanial Chouhan’s brutality was exposed when his wife, Sitabai whom he married at age 16 was rushed to the hospital after attempting to commit suicide with rat poison.

While receiving treatment at the hospital to discharge the poison she took, nurses were amazed to find a padlock in her vagina.

According to Mrs. Sitabai Chouhan, who had been married to Chouhan for 19 years, in 2008, Chouhan drugged her and locked her in a room late at night and then proceeded to drill holes with a spiky instrument on either side of her genitals in order to fit a lock to stop her from having sex with other men while he is at work. Every morning before going to work, Chouhan allegedly inserts a small lock into the hole and keep the keys under his socks.

The Hospital immediately invited the police who tracked down Chouhan and unlock the padlock after retrieving the key from him.

Mrs. Chouhan claimed she had attempted suicide because her husband got her drunk and tried molesting their eldest daughter.

While his wife recuperates, Chouhan has been charged with cruelty and voluntarily causing grievous hurt. Police describe Chouhan as a mentally disturbed alcoholic.

Following his arrest, he tried justifying his actions, claiming that he became the custodian of his wife’s vagina because, several women in his family had “strayed” in the past and he did not want his wife to do the same.
The normal chastity belts are made of garments that can be locked to stop the wearer from having sex and not by literally puncturing holes in the genitals for padlocks. When locked, the belt fits very securely to the body, both at the waist and the crotch. The belt has a slit for urinating at the crotch and absolutely nothing, not even a finger can penetrate far enough for sexual pleasure. However, it cannot be worn for a long period due to hygiene complications.

According to popular myth, the chastity belt was used as an anti-temptation device during the Crusades. When the knight left for the Holy Lands on the Crusades fighting the pop’s war, his Lady would wear a chastity belt to preserve her faithfulness to him. However, there is no credible evidence that chastity belts existed before the 15th century and their main period of apparent use falls within the Renaissance rather than the Medieval times.

The first real chastity belts were created in the 1800s, with the sole aim of keeping boys and girls from masturbating and not for keeping women from straying.

The couple who resides in Indore, one of the biggest cities in the state of Madhya Pradesh in India has five children. Though the city is known for its architectural splendour and is home to many industries and contributes immensely to the fast growing rate of India’s economy, it is just like every other place in India which was recently classified by a survey carried out by TrustLaw, as the worst place to be a woman.
The girl child is still seen as inferior and of no financial value to the family. They are still being married off as young as ten, burned as a result of dowry-related disputes, and even sold off as property. Feel free to comment below

PHOTO – Woman gives birth to a baby with 2 heads and Many Legs

baby born with two heads
A woman give birth to a healthy girl with two heads but one body at a private nursing home in this Uttar Pradesh district.

The abnormal baby was delivered to one Sumitra Devi (38) after a major operation at a private nursing home ‘Aashirwad hospital and Research Centre’ near Polytechnic crossing at 2100 hrs last night.

The child has two heads fixed on a single neck and body. She has two hands and as many legs and is crying with both her mouths. Not only this, she is taking feed with both her mouths normally. The rare birth is said to be owing to a congenital abnormality.

Senior doctor of the nursing home, Dr Anju, said: “It is a birth defect and usually known as ‘congential anomaly.”

It is a type of congenital disorder which is primarily structural in nature, she informed adding, the problem occurs to one child in several lakhs generally due to a genetic disorder.

Dr Vinod Kumar, another senior medico, said the chances of survival of such children are much lesser, but they can also live longer on better care. The father Tilakdhari Yadav said the newborn is his sixth child. He has four daughters. The fifth child was a boy, who is no more.

Pastor Chris Okotie Verbally attacks EX-Wife Stephanie during Church Service – Go to CNN

Okotie To Estranged Wife




















During his sermon on Sunday August 12th in his Household of God Church, pastor Chris Okotie verbally assaulted his ex-wife Stephanie.

According to some members of his church that attended the service that Sunday morning, pastor Chris Okotie threw caution into the wind and verbally attacked his estranged wife, Stephanie Henshaw, comparing her to Jezebel in the bible and saying that he was free to judge her because of what he suffered in her hands.

(He didn’t say what). He was also quoted as saying that Stephanie was free to go to CNN or BBC to talk about him but he will never take her back.

Those who listened to him said he sounded so bitter and had never spoken about her like that before.
Pastor Chris has also taken back the two expensive cars he gave Stephanie during their four year marriage; a Benz S Class and a BMW X6.

Popular Lagos Based Pastor Impregnates 15Year Old Daughter Twice after Wife’s Death

 Pastor Impregnates 15-Year Old Daughter Pastor Emmanuel Alex in charge of a new generation church in Egan, on the outskirts of Lagos, has been arrested by the police for allegedly impregnating his 15-year old daughter two times.

His daughter delivered the two babies within two years. This happened after the girl’s mother died. They were all living in the same apartment at 33, Pastor Olusola Street, Agric, Egan, Lagos, southwest Nigeria.
We gathered from the residents that the pastor’s nine children were not allowed to go to school or socialise with their neighbours and when he wanted to go out, he locked them inside his two-bedroom flat.
His arrest followed a sting operation by two non governmental organizations in collaboration with the Lagos State Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation, WAPA, Alausa, Ikeja.

We also  gathered that the pastor’s wife died during labour in 2010 after giving birth to nine children.
While in labour to deliver the 10th child, the pastor had no money to take her to hospital and he asked her to deliver in their house and in the process, she died.

Sources told us that she died, Alex started sleeping with his first daughter and it resulted in pregnancy. She delivered the baby in 2011.

While nursing the baby, the pastor impregnated her again and she delivered the second baby recently.
The scandal was exposed during a burial Alex was to be the officiating pastor. Some of the residents opposed him and told those at the burial that he had impregnated his own daughter two times.

He was subsequently arrested by the police at Igando division. When we visited the station, police sources confirmed the incident and told our reporter that he has been charged to Ikeja High court where he was remanded in prison custody.

Meanwhile, the Welfare Department of WAPA has taken custody of all his children.
His flat was locked when we visited his residence.

I Am Engaged – Ghanaian Actor John Dumelo

When a pretty singer and a handsome actor, both young and single, come together for a make-believe wedding scene on stage, it provides fertile ground for their numerous fans to make guesses about whether they are romantically linked.

That’s exactly what has been happening since Saturday, October 29 when John Dumelo, spotting a smart dark suit came on to carry away Becca in a gorgeous wedding dress at the end of the singer’s Forever song during the Red Lipsticks concert at the Dome of the International Conference Centre.

“He kissed her for real,”; “She seemed so excited about it all,”; “I’m sure there is something secret between them,”; “They look so compatible” were some of the comments passed by the fans.

The two, however, say though they have known each other for about 10 years, there is no secret fire burning in their hearts for each other and that they are simply good friends.

According to Becca, she first met John Dumelo when they attended vacation classes at Achimota School in Accra. She was then a student at Wesley Girls High School in Cape Coast and John Dumelo was in Achimota School. “He was already my big brother’s friend and we got along well when we met,” the singer pointed out.
“Forever is a love song and my management decided at one of the rehearsal sessions that we should incorporate a wedding bit to thrill the audience. “There were options on which actor to call but we settled for Dumelo because he is good-looking and a good actor with an appreciable following. He fitted the role best. We were both acting so we had to make it look as real as possible. I’m sorry to disappoint our fans that there is nothing romantic between us.”

John  Dumelo also stated that he did not hesitate to play the role when contacted by the singer’s management because of his friendship with her. He said though some people say they look compatible, he was engaged to someone else but Becca remained a very good friend.

“My fiancée did not get angry on hearing all the rumors about my supposed romantic links with Becca because she was already aware of our close friendship.”

Becca denied that she was in a relationship with her manager, Kiki Banson. She said since Banson was the only man people saw around her in public, she understood it when rumours flew around that he was dating her. “The truth is that there are other people in my life but I’m a very private person and I like to keep my love life away from public glare. The public would know who I’m dating at the right time,” the Afro-Pop singer said.

Police Drops Murder Charge against Banker,Yinka Johnson Over LASTMA Death

Yinka Johnson murder case
The agency initially claimed the banker ran over one of their staffs.Before now, there have been accusations and counter-accusations over the case of Stanbic IBTC’s Yinka Johnson, who LASTMA claimed ran over one of their staffs, as she tried to escape arrest.

“The LASTMA authorities, for some unexplained reasons are trying to pin the alleged crime on Yinka Johnson whose car was not even moving at the time Hammed Balogun was hit. She did not even see the man being hit,” a Lagos TV producer, Doyin Akinlade, said. He claimed that the banker went to the Ajiwe Police Station on her accord, but the traffic enforcement authority were trying to frame her up.

But it appears the murder charges have been dropped now. However, some reports still have it that she will still answer to charges of driving against traffic, which she was initially arrested for.

“Though it’s not official yet but it appears as if the murder charges have been dropped but she will still go to court this morning for the traffic offense,” sources claimed earlier on.

However, Henry Okelue, who has been staying on the case, has confirmed the news.
“I can confirm that the murder accusation against the banker, Yinka Johnson, has been dropped by the Police,” he tweeted via his handle, @4eyedmonk.

He went on to add angrily: “I hope Mrs. Yinka Johnson will take appropriate actions and sue LASTMA as an agency and the PRO of LASTMA as a person.”

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20-year-old caught by father trying to Defile his grandmother ‘because he couldn’t get a girlfriend

Samuel Dye
A 20-year-old man attempted to rape his grandmother after complaining to her he could not get a girlfriend.
Samuel Dye is alleged to have beaten his grandmother with a hammer before launching the s*x attack.
He had complained about not being able to find a girlfriend and told her he was going to ‘get some’.

Police said Dye’s assault was stopped by his father after he heard the screams of his 61-year-old mother. He found his son on top of his mother with his trousers pulled down and hitting her in the head with a hammer. The father pulled his son away and detained him until police arrived.

The alleged attack took place after Dye turned up at his grandmother’s home in Chester, South Carolina, at 4am last Thursday.

The woman told police Dye showed up at her home with a hammer in his hand and began complaining about not having a girlfriend. He said he was going to ‘get some’.

The arrest report, seen by the Charlotte Observer, said Dye began attacking her. She pleaded with her grandson to stop and suggested they pray together. Dye then exposed himself to the woman and tried to r*pe her before hitting her in the head again and knocking her onto the ground, the report states.

Sheriff Richard Smith said Dye’s father caught him ‘in the act’ of trying to r*pe his mother. Dye is being held at the Chester County Detention Center having been charged with charged with attempted murder and attempted s*xual contact.

Records with the State Law Enforcement Division shows that Dye has no prior criminal history in South Carolina, aside from a seat belt violation that is still pending in court, it was reported by the Charlotte Observer.

Tuesday, 14 August 2012

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Female Banker Yinka Johnson kills LASTMA official in Lagos

Yinka Johnson kills Lastma officer
A female banker, Yinka Johnson, on Friday crushed an official of the Lagos State Traffic Management Authority, Mr. Hameed Balogun, while driving against the traffic in the Ajah area of the state.
This came three weeks after another official of the agency, Mustapher Adeleke, was crushed by a bus driver, who was driving against traffic.

The incident was recorded a week after the Governor Babatunde Fashola signed the new traffic law.
According to LASTMA authorities, Johnson, who is an employee of Stanbic IBTC, ran over the traffic official when he accosted her for contravening the law.

The General Manager, LASTMA, Mr. Babatunde Edu, said after hitting the 33-year-old LASTMA official, Johnson ran into Ikota Estate, Ajah, where security guards prevented LASTMA officials from arresting her.
He said, “Balogun was this morning (yesterday) killed by a banker on the Lekki-Ajah Expressway while carrying out his official assignment at his duty post at Mega City, Ajah.

“The driver, whose identity was revealed by the Auto Inspector device as Yinka Johnson, an employee of IBTC, drove in a green LandRover Jeep with registration number CY 276 LSD against traffic from Mega Chicken inward toll plaza two.

“She was intercepted by three officials of LASTMA led by the Head of Operations, Mr. Quayum Asafa, for traffic violation. Johnson started driving recklessly in order to escape and in the process ran over the officer.
“The deceased was rushed to Germaine Hospital where he later died as a result of injury sustained from the accident. The corpse was deposited at the Lagos State Teaching Hospital, Ikeja, for autopsy.

“Realising what she had done, she ran and escaped from the scene of the incident into Ikota Estate, Ajah with the security men shutting the gate.

“The situation became riotous as the security attached to the gate refused all entries to open the gate until the intervention of the Area Commander in charge of Area J, Mr. Felix Uwamli, who called for backup before access could be gained into the Estate.”

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Extraordinary bond: Conjoined twins Abigail and Brittany Hensel have been given their own reality TV show charting their graduation and travels through Europe
They were never expected to survive beyond a few days.
But conjoined twins Abigail and Brittany Hensel have not only proved doctors wrong, they have astonished them with their development into darling children, typical teenagers and, lately, beautiful young adults.
Now the 22-year-olds, who share one body fused at the torso, will be starring in their own reality TV show chronicling their graduation from Bethel University in Minnesota, their post-grad job search and their travels through Europe with friends.

Astonishing development: The 22-year-olds, who share one body, graduated from Bethel University in Minnesota, a story that will form part of the show
Astonishing development: The 22-year-olds, who share one body, graduated from Bethel University in Minnesota, a story that will form part of the show
The girls first captivated the world in 1996 when they appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show and the cover of Life Magazine.

Since then they have lived a quiet, normal life with their family in Minnesota, keeping away from the media spotlight until they agreed to appear on a documentary for TLC when they turned 16.
The broadcaster has now given them their own show called ‘Abby and Brittany’ which will premiere on August 28.

When the Hensel twins were born on March 7, 1990, in Minnesota in the United States, doctors warned their parents Patty, a registered nurse, and Mike, a carpenter and landscaper, that they were unlikely to survive the night.
But that prediction was to prove wildy wrong.

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Real Life Story – His Mother was Sexually Abusing him since he was 13year-old

Real Life Story

Femi was born into a comfortable family but his father died when he was 13yrs old and ever since then his mother has been s*xually abusing him, which affected his relationship with people especially with females. He keeps to himself even at school.
His mother had warned him not to speak with anyone and not to have other friends. However, Femi didn’t understand why his mother was engaging in such act and he was too scared to talk to anybody about it, and for years, he has been carrying out his mother’s wish….sleeping with her.

The relationship continued for 4years before Femi finally gathered up courage to confide in a teacher he came across at a school program. When his mother was asked why she engaged in such dirty act she said:
“I am truly sorry,  I don’t want people to tag me as a promiscuous woman” so I decided to keep it within the house………… What kind of a mother s*xually abuses her son?

What should be done about a situation like this? Will Femi be able to get over this?



7 Types of Men You Should Avoid When Dating


Women always say, “I didn’t know he was like that” when their boyfriends perform acts that cause everyone around them shame. In some cases they really weren’t aware of the boyfriend’s mischievous deeds, but in other cases women knew well in advance they just hoped he would stop.

Most women are not stupid, gullible, dumb, or any other name critics choose to call them for the selections in men they make. For some, they truly had no idea their boyfriend meant bad news for them. The ever-popular question of, “Why did she get herself involved with him anyway?” continues to loom over their heads and the reasons vary depending on whom you ask. Some women may have found out about their problem boyfriend and stayed because of love, status, money and/or power. Others may have stayed because they didn’t want to carry the guilt of leaving their children’s father over issues they feel could be resolved.

Still many women feel they can change him. As long as women continue to believe that the power of sex, money, counseling, personal sacrifice or a host of other strategies to change a bad man will work, they will continue to subject themselves to mental and physical abuse. These strategies simply will never work for some men. There comes a time when women will have to get off their knees whether she is praying to God or pleading to her mate to change. She will have to stand up carrying her self-respect in hand and walk right through the door of “end the relationship now.”

The following advice is written for women who haven’t yet made a commitment or a baby with a “bad boy.” She may be struggling with whether she is ready to settle down with him, distance herself from him or keep him as a friend. Although the best advice is not to offer to carry him or his burdens and just leave him alone, there will be those women who will still stay. If those women choose to stay, they have committed themselves to a hard life of many restless nights, aches and pains at times mentally and/or physically and they most likely will past negative behaviors to their future children and their children.
  • The Liar – In the beginning of the relationship, you caught him in a few white lies. He had what seemed like convincing excuses; therefore you let him get away with them. Now the lying has increased and the excuses have become minimal if not at all. Actions you may want to consider are the following: Approach him not only with what you think, but what you know; in other words have proof. Stop taking his lying lightly. Let him know that this behavior you will not accept any longer. If he chooses to continue lying, then tell him you will have to end the relationship for good. Once you have made a decision that you are leaving, begin to make efforts to not be contacted by him (change your cell phone number, block his email address, put places you hang out frequently on hold, and avoid telling mutual friends about your personal whereabouts, thoughts and feelings. You must not leave and then go back to him, he will only get better about lying to you over time.
  • The Player also known as The Pimp – This man is obsessed with being contacted or making contact with the opposite sex. He will use cell phone, email, your house phone or friends to make contact with whomever he meets. He will leave a trail of evidence whether it is the popular piece of paper that slips out of his pocket with a phone number without a name, restaurant receipts, hotel charges, cologne or jewelry gifts, read and sent email that sits in his account that he forgot to delete. He begins to create a pattern in his actions when you have become old and someone else becomes new. Look out for this repetitious pattern. He may develop his pattern after work on a daily basis working later and later nights at the office then when he comes home he is providing almost too much detail about what happened at work or not at all
  • Another pattern he may create may be choosing a hobby or interest that is very unusual to his personality and attending this faithfully, what you can do to find out if he is sincere is offer to pick him up from the pottery class on some nights. Watch his reaction. There may also be the weekend pattern of always “needing to get away, have some time to myself, or I’m so busy with errands.” All the while making little or no time for the two of you to go out and be seen together. When you suggest new places to visit, he finds an excuse to take you to the same area you both are familiar to keep from running into the other woman or women. He finds a way, anyway, to travel to places without you regularly using an excuse such as “I’m going to my mother’s house or hanging out with Rick, Joe or someone you never heard of Frank.” Be careful family and friends will cover for him. He will call you, at times when he knows you are out and about to see if you will be in the proximity where he will be entertaining the other woman or women. He is protective of his cell phone and his computer; if you tried to check either it may be password protected. You may want to consider whether having to worry over your man’s whereabouts is worth all of this aggravation. In time, you will become insecure, angry for no apparent reason, and develop a since of distrust toward everyone you meet. This is baggage you don’t need.
  • The Thief – He has been around when things go missing. At first you didn’t suspect him and thought items had just been misplaced or he blamed someone else for taking them. Yet, you have always had a funny feeling in your gut that he was the one who made off with your dad’s tools, took your favorite CD, helped himself to some cash sitting around, and other important items. It is time to come up with a plan, set him up. The kind of plan you come up with can’t be easily figured out by him and if you sincerely want your restless conscience to be at peace, then go to great lengths to figure out whether he is trustworthy. Time is money and the longer you stay with him, the more items will go missing.
  • The Hustler – He is always thinking of a way to separate people from their money illegally. From identity theft to standing on the street corner selling drugs, he always has a knot of money and doesn’t mind living lavishly. Now you may think that what he has told you about his daytime job is paying the bills, but the truth of the matter that job didn’t pay for the designer clothing and expensive jewelry you wear; instead it was the second one you may or may not know about. This man is dangerous. He has enemies and one day some one will catch up with him, you or anyone who associates with either of you, and the sight won’t be pretty. You must ask yourself this question, is he worth putting your life and everyone else’s lives around you in danger?
  • The Abuser/Controller – You can never do anything right. He is often critical, walks around with an attitude and every opportunity he has alone he wants you to stop living your world to be with him. In the beginning of the relationship, you justified his negative personality with excuse after excuse. Whether he is physically ill, illiterate, disabled or mentally disturbed and on medication, you have a right to explain how you feel about him to him. You may have done this already and got knocked to the ground whether verbally or physically. You may have told yourself that things will get better and he is making an effort to change. Well that is good if he is sincere about becoming a better man; however, he can make those strides without you living with him and subjecting yourself to his name calling, mood swings, choking, punching, and grabbing. There are no rewards in heaven given to women who allow themselves to be abused by men. There was only one Christ in the Holy Bible and you are not He. (Read more about the abuser in an article I wrote entitled, “How To Know Your Boyfriend Is Abusive” at this site.)
  • The Mooch – You have invited him once again on an outing and he never has any money in his wallet. During inopportune times, he says he needs to stop at the ATM and you know there is none even close to where the two of you are located. When he offers to take you out, he usually picks a place that he doesn’t have to pay much (despite the fact that when it was on your tab he ordered steak and another time lobster!) He drives your car and doesn’t fill it up, when you mention it; he finally puts some gas in the tank — a measly $5 or $10. Holidays come and go with very little if any acknowledgment from him. Yet, you bought him (and possibly his relatives) really nice gifts whether it was a holiday or not. He displays affection, says all the right things, and listens to your concerns only when he knows he needs something from you.
  • If you choose to continue a relationship with this man you have options and they are as follows. You could stop being so generous and treat him how he treats you. For example, when you invite him out, treat him to the kind of places he takes you. Put a limit on how often he drives your car. Avoid helping him when he is in a bind since you know he won’t help you. Make yourself unavailable to run errands for him and anyone associated with him (that includes his children by a previous relationship, his mother, sister or brother.) If he begins to see you are no fool, he won’t continue to run over you and will grow to appreciate you. However, if he doesn’t you will be making it easy for him to walk away from you without you having to break up with him
  • The Drunk/ Drug Abuser – How many times have you seen him intoxicated or using drugs? Is he fun, angry, disgusting or depressed afterward? Are most of the relationship problems you have been facing associated with this type of behavior? If so, then you will have to consider whether or not you will help him get counseling from a distance, continue to live with him and endure the abuse, leave him alone altogether or create an intervention for him that includes a professional counselor, family and friends who have all been affected by his negative ways. If he consistently refuses help, then for your own sanity and safety, leave him alone.



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